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While the various proposals received a majority of support from the bishops gathered for the Synod on the Family, they failed Saturday to receive the required two-thirds majority that would have carried the weight of formal appro... Vatican City • Catholic bishops meeting here narrowly defeated proposals that would have signaled greater acceptance of gays and lesbians and divorced Catholics, a sign of the deep divisions facing the hierarchy as Pope Francis continues his push for a more open church. While the various proposals received a majority of support from the bishops gathered for the Synod on the Family, they failed Saturday to receive the required two-thirds majority that would have carried the weight of formal appro... <img src="http://mngislctrib.112.2O7.net/b/ss/mngislctrib/1/H.17--NS/0?&pageName=RSS" height="1" width="1" border="0" alt=""/> 58541765@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 18:13:39 MDT Idaho ministers sue to prevent gay weddings at for-profit wedding chapel http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/lifestyle/58542234-80/religious-weddings-chapel-idaho.html.csp Owners of an Idaho wedding chapel have sued officials in Coeur d’Alene, claiming that the city is unconstitutionally forcing them to violate their religious beliefs by performing same-sex marriages or face possible fines and jail time. The state’s 2004 ban on same-sex marriage was ruled unconstitutional by a federal judge earlier this year; the Supreme Court refused to consider Idaho’s appeal Oct. 10, making the conservative state one of more than 30 states (including Utah) to marry gay and lesb... Owners of an Idaho wedding chapel have sued officials in Coeur d’Alene, claiming that the city is unconstitutionally forcing them to violate their religious beliefs by performing same-sex marriages or face possible fines and jail time. The state’s 2004 ban on same-sex marriage was ruled unconstitutional by a federal judge earlier this year; the Supreme Court refused to consider Idaho’s appeal Oct. 10, making the conservative state one of more than 30 states (including Utah) to marry gay and lesb... 58542234@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 16:21:04 MDT 7 lessons from the Vatican’s wild and crazy Synod on the Family http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/lifestyle/58542271-80/francis-synod-church-bishops.html.csp Pope Francis and senior Catholic leaders wrapped up their two-week Vatican summit on the challenges of modern family life Sunday without reaching a consensus on a number of hot-button topics. So where does that leave Francis’ papacy? And the church? Here are seven takeaways: 1. Hard-liners won the battle A midpoint status report on the debate among some 190 cardinals and bishops was described as a “pastoral earthquake” because of its unprecedented (for Catholic churchmen) language of welcome... Pope Francis and senior Catholic leaders wrapped up their two-week Vatican summit on the challenges of modern family life Sunday without reaching a consensus on a number of hot-button topics. So where does that leave Francis’ papacy? And the church? Here are seven takeaways: 1. Hard-liners won the battle A midpoint status report on the debate among some 190 cardinals and bishops was described as a “pastoral earthquake” because of its unprecedented (for Catholic churchmen) language of welcome... 58542271@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 16:21:04 MDT Pope beatifies Paul VI at remarkable synod’s end http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/lifestyle/58542429-80/paul-pope-church-synod.html.csp Vatican City • Pope Francis on Sunday beatified Pope Paul VI, concluding the remarkable meeting of bishops debating family issues that drew parallels to the tumultuous reforms of the Second Vatican Council that Paul oversaw and implemented. Emeritus Pope Benedict XVI was on hand for the Mass, which took place just hours after Catholic bishops approved a document charting a more pastoral approach to ministering to Catholic families. They failed to reach consensus on the two most divisive issues a... Vatican City • Pope Francis on Sunday beatified Pope Paul VI, concluding the remarkable meeting of bishops debating family issues that drew parallels to the tumultuous reforms of the Second Vatican Council that Paul oversaw and implemented. Emeritus Pope Benedict XVI was on hand for the Mass, which took place just hours after Catholic bishops approved a document charting a more pastoral approach to ministering to Catholic families. They failed to reach consensus on the two most divisive issues a... 58542429@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 16:12:02 MDT Hungry for an ‘alternative Halloween’? SB Dance has the show for you http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58526099-223/dance-halloween-brown-cannibal.html.csp Intersections between sex, food and obsession are explored in SB Dance’s new show, “Cannibal: A Love Story,” billed as an “alternative Halloween for curious minds.” Company director Stephen Brown says one of his first goals with the show was to offer a performance geared toward adult psychology and sensibility. The show tells the tale of a hard-boiled restaurant critic who ventures into the Heart of Darkness. Brown said he likes the idea of doing a Halloween show because it gives him permissio... Intersections between sex, food and obsession are explored in SB Dance’s new show, “Cannibal: A Love Story,” billed as an “alternative Halloween for curious minds.” Company director Stephen Brown says one of his first goals with the show was to offer a performance geared toward adult psychology and sensibility. The show tells the tale of a hard-boiled restaurant critic who ventures into the Heart of Darkness. Brown said he likes the idea of doing a Halloween show because it gives him permissio... 58526099@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 15:22:52 MDT Utah Catholics: Will ‘stunning’ shift on gays stick? http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/lifestyle/58518085-80/church-document-catholics-dodge.html.csp A document issued Monday in Rome was portrayed as “stunning” and a “seismic shift” in the way the Catholic Church deals with gay people. But it also is preliminary and subject to the vagaries of a quick translation into English, noted Catholic observers in Utah. “It’s a rough and ready translation and it [the Vatican] tells you upfront this is not official,” said Scott Dodge, a deacon at Salt Lake City’s Cathedral of the Madeleine. Dodge blogged Monday about the document, a summary of the... A document issued Monday in Rome was portrayed as “stunning” and a “seismic shift” in the way the Catholic Church deals with gay people. But it also is preliminary and subject to the vagaries of a quick translation into English, noted Catholic observers in Utah. “It’s a rough and ready translation and it [the Vatican] tells you upfront this is not official,” said Scott Dodge, a deacon at Salt Lake City’s Cathedral of the Madeleine. Dodge blogged Monday about the document, a summary of the... 58518085@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 13:46:37 MDT Orphans abandoned, shunned in Africa’s Ebola crisis http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/lifestyle/58533180-80/ebola-died-frank-orphans.html.csp Monrovia, Liberia • Ever since Frank Mulbah’s mother died of Ebola in August, no one will go near him. “I went to my relatives after my mother died, but they chased me away, even after I told them that I didn’t have Ebola,” said Frank, 12, who tested negative for Ebola at the hospital where his mother died. As Ebola continues its rampage across Liberia and elsewhere in West Africa, thousands of children are taking a double hit: losing parents to the fatal virus and then being shunned by relative... Monrovia, Liberia • Ever since Frank Mulbah’s mother died of Ebola in August, no one will go near him. “I went to my relatives after my mother died, but they chased me away, even after I told them that I didn’t have Ebola,” said Frank, 12, who tested negative for Ebola at the hospital where his mother died. As Ebola continues its rampage across Liberia and elsewhere in West Africa, thousands of children are taking a double hit: losing parents to the fatal virus and then being shunned by relative... 58533180@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 13:46:37 MDT Rabbi leads vigil outside Met to protest opera http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58541695-223/opera-klinghoffer-met-york.html.csp New York • A prominent New York rabbi led a prayer vigil Monday before the Metropolitan Opera’s premiere of “The Death of Klinghoffer,” which opponents say glorifies Palestinian terrorists. Teenagers from Jewish faith-based schools joined Rabbi Avi Weiss in a makeshift prayer spot opposite the Met. They discussed Hebrew scriptures in shifts of about a dozen throughout the day. An evening rally was also planned, with former New York Mayor Rudy Giuliani, former Gov. George Pataki and two U.S. cong... New York • A prominent New York rabbi led a prayer vigil Monday before the Metropolitan Opera’s premiere of “The Death of Klinghoffer,” which opponents say glorifies Palestinian terrorists. Teenagers from Jewish faith-based schools joined Rabbi Avi Weiss in a makeshift prayer spot opposite the Met. They discussed Hebrew scriptures in shifts of about a dozen throughout the day. An evening rally was also planned, with former New York Mayor Rudy Giuliani, former Gov. George Pataki and two U.S. cong... 58541695@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 13:20:01 MDT Pitbull to host American Music Awards on Nov. 23 http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58541100-223/american-awards-music-nov.html.csp New York • Pitbull will host the 2014 American Music Awards. The platinum-selling rapper will also perform at the Nov. 23 event at Nokia Theatre L.A. Live, to air live on ABC, dick clark productions announced Monday. Later that week, Pitbull will perform during the halftime show on Thanksgiving Day when the Dallas Cowboys play the Philadelphia Eagles. The Nov. 27 game will take place at the AT&T Stadium in Arlington, Texas, and will air on Fox. Iggy Azalea is the leading nominee at the AMAs with... New York • Pitbull will host the 2014 American Music Awards. The platinum-selling rapper will also perform at the Nov. 23 event at Nokia Theatre L.A. Live, to air live on ABC, dick clark productions announced Monday. Later that week, Pitbull will perform during the halftime show on Thanksgiving Day when the Dallas Cowboys play the Philadelphia Eagles. The Nov. 27 game will take place at the AT&T Stadium in Arlington, Texas, and will air on Fox. Iggy Azalea is the leading nominee at the AMAs with... 58541100@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 10:34:01 MDT Ann Cannon: Halloween lover or hater: which one are you? http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58540878-223/halloween-candy-hater-holiday.html.csp Have you ever had a friend with whom you are so simpatico that you assume the two of you like all the same things? The same TV shows (“The Good Wife”). The same sports teams (The Utah Jazz). The same kinds of books (detective novels). The same kinds of food (all food, duh). The same holiday (Halloween). Then one day you realize that this friend actually hates the holiday you thought you both adored (Halloween)? And when you realized this, did the planet tilt on its axis a little bit because you... Have you ever had a friend with whom you are so simpatico that you assume the two of you like all the same things? The same TV shows (“The Good Wife”). The same sports teams (The Utah Jazz). The same kinds of books (detective novels). The same kinds of food (all food, duh). The same holiday (Halloween). Then one day you realize that this friend actually hates the holiday you thought you both adored (Halloween)? And when you realized this, did the planet tilt on its axis a little bit because you... 58540878@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 10:01:34 MDT Recipe: A savory pear tart that can be a brunch or dessert http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58436196-223/tart-cup-half-pear.html.csp We weren’t sure whether this slightly sweet, slightly savory, very Italian pear tart belonged best at brunch or dessert. And then we realized it doesn’t matter. Our favorite items for either occasion often are those treats that straddle the line a little, and this elegant autumn tart delivers that perfectly. Not a fan of pine nuts? Almond slivers or chopped macadamia nuts would be great, too. We weren’t sure whether this slightly sweet, slightly savory, very Italian pear tart belonged best at brunch or dessert. And then we realized it doesn’t matter. Our favorite items for either occasion often are those treats that straddle the line a little, and this elegant autumn tart delivers that perfectly. Not a fan of pine nuts? Almond slivers or chopped macadamia nuts would be great, too. 58436196@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 09:21:02 MDT DVD review: ‘Snowpiercer’ a cool ride through a frozen apocalypse http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58530403-223/snowpiercer-apocalypse-bong-evans.html.csp Grade • A DVD • Post-apocalyptic movies are so common these days (“The Maze Runner,” “The Giver,” “Divergent,” “The Hunger Games”) that “Saturday Night Live” brilliantly skewered the genre last week with an ad for “The Group Hopper.” Bong Joon-ho’s “Snowpiercer,” however, is an apocalypse unlike any other. On a frozen Earth, the only remnants of humanity ride a train running an endless loop around the globe — with the rich riding in luxury up front, and the poor struggling for scraps in the re... Grade • A DVD • Post-apocalyptic movies are so common these days (“The Maze Runner,” “The Giver,” “Divergent,” “The Hunger Games”) that “Saturday Night Live” brilliantly skewered the genre last week with an ad for “The Group Hopper.” Bong Joon-ho’s “Snowpiercer,” however, is an apocalypse unlike any other. On a frozen Earth, the only remnants of humanity ride a train running an endless loop around the globe — with the rich riding in luxury up front, and the poor struggling for scraps in the re... 58530403@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 09:12:01 MDT Salt Lake artist paints internment camp story with artistic eye http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58520556-223/havey-gasa-camp-girl.html.csp Hearing about military veterans with post-traumatic stress disorder raised personal questions for Lily Yuriko Nakai Havey some 50 years after the Salt Lake City artist had been interned with her family in Colorado’s Amache Relocation Center. Memories of her girlhood in the camps were mostly long buried, but she began to wonder about the floating anxiety she sometimes felt. Once she was watching a TV show where two women heard a loud sound; one startled and one didn’t. Loud sounds made Havey un... Hearing about military veterans with post-traumatic stress disorder raised personal questions for Lily Yuriko Nakai Havey some 50 years after the Salt Lake City artist had been interned with her family in Colorado’s Amache Relocation Center. Memories of her girlhood in the camps were mostly long buried, but she began to wonder about the floating anxiety she sometimes felt. Once she was watching a TV show where two women heard a loud sound; one startled and one didn’t. Loud sounds made Havey un... 58520556@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 09:06:06 MDT Utah play ‘Rapture, Blister, Burn’ puts funny back in feminist http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58520575-223/lake-rapture-salt-says.html.csp The articulately worded massacre threat that prompted feminist critic Anita Sarkeesian to cancel her Utah speech last week makes the provocative questions posed by the production of “Rapture, Blister, Burn” seem oddly prescient. But maybe playwright Gina Gionfriddo’s story about juggling ambition and family have been relevant ever since the first gatherer dropped the first “f-bomb” — feminism, that is — while demanding her hunter-partner split the work of caring for their young cave dwellers. An... The articulately worded massacre threat that prompted feminist critic Anita Sarkeesian to cancel her Utah speech last week makes the provocative questions posed by the production of “Rapture, Blister, Burn” seem oddly prescient. But maybe playwright Gina Gionfriddo’s story about juggling ambition and family have been relevant ever since the first gatherer dropped the first “f-bomb” — feminism, that is — while demanding her hunter-partner split the work of caring for their young cave dwellers. An... 58520575@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 09:06:06 MDT Play ball! Sports-themed books will score with young readers http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58526390-223/sports-books-readers-football.html.csp If you’re into sports, then the month of October is as good as it gets. Football, postseason baseball, preseason NBA basketball — and a variety of sports-related books for young readers — are included in autumn’s starting lineup. There are a number of children’s authors, in fact, who consistently use the world of athletic competition as a backdrop for stories that explore broader issues. One of the best is Chris Crutcher, a family therapist by training, who writes realistic, often gritty fiction... If you’re into sports, then the month of October is as good as it gets. Football, postseason baseball, preseason NBA basketball — and a variety of sports-related books for young readers — are included in autumn’s starting lineup. There are a number of children’s authors, in fact, who consistently use the world of athletic competition as a backdrop for stories that explore broader issues. One of the best is Chris Crutcher, a family therapist by training, who writes realistic, often gritty fiction... 58526390@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 09:06:06 MDT Utah Lit: Remembering the history of Utah’s Topaz Relocation Camp http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58529183-223/otsuka-says-japanese-utah.html.csp Before Julie Otsuka visited the dusty desert site of what was the Topaz Relocation Center, she had spent six years building the place in her mind, block by block, barrack by barrack. She conducted extensive research, reading as many oral histories and books about the camps as she could find. Eventually she had littered pages and pages of notebooks with sensory details, which she wove into her luminous, spare 2002 novel “When the Emperor Was Divine.” The story is loosely based on her family’s hi... Before Julie Otsuka visited the dusty desert site of what was the Topaz Relocation Center, she had spent six years building the place in her mind, block by block, barrack by barrack. She conducted extensive research, reading as many oral histories and books about the camps as she could find. Eventually she had littered pages and pages of notebooks with sensory details, which she wove into her luminous, spare 2002 novel “When the Emperor Was Divine.” The story is loosely based on her family’s hi... 58529183@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 09:06:06 MDT Health officials close pho restaurant in West Valley City http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58533751-223/health-stored-department-inspectors.html.csp The Salt Lake County Health Department closed the Pho Que Huong restaurant in West Valley City on Thursday for creating an imminent health hazard for customers. According to a notice on the department website, inspectors discovered 55 health violations at the Vietnamese eatery, 4795 W. 3500 South, including “the sewer backing up into the floor sinks.” Other violations include the inability of employees to properly wash and dry hands due to sink problems; a dishwasher that was not sanitizing prop... The Salt Lake County Health Department closed the Pho Que Huong restaurant in West Valley City on Thursday for creating an imminent health hazard for customers. According to a notice on the department website, inspectors discovered 55 health violations at the Vietnamese eatery, 4795 W. 3500 South, including “the sewer backing up into the floor sinks.” Other violations include the inability of employees to properly wash and dry hands due to sink problems; a dishwasher that was not sanitizing prop... 58533751@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 09:06:06 MDT Where in Utah was this photo taken? Email your guess to outdoors@sltrib.com for a chance to win a book http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58508635-223/book-utah-brett-camano.html.csp This week • Send your guess, along with name and address, to outdoors@sltrib.com for a chance to win the book “Utah” by Tom and Gayen Wharton. Guesses must be submitted by noon Oct. 24. Include “Where” in the email subject line. Last week • Donna Geer of Camano Island, Washington had her name drawn from the entries that correctly identified the Red Canyon Visitors Center at Flaming Gorge National Recreation Area. Camano wins the book “Fishing Utah” by Brett Prettyman. This week • Send your guess, along with name and address, to outdoors@sltrib.com for a chance to win the book “Utah” by Tom and Gayen Wharton. Guesses must be submitted by noon Oct. 24. Include “Where” in the email subject line. Last week • Donna Geer of Camano Island, Washington had her name drawn from the entries that correctly identified the Red Canyon Visitors Center at Flaming Gorge National Recreation Area. Camano wins the book “Fishing Utah” by Brett Prettyman. 58508635@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 09:06:06 MDT Scott D. Pierce: ‘Chrisley Knows Best’ feels too fake to believe http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58530148-223/todd-chrisley-believe-knows.html.csp Can you love USA’s outrageous “Chrisley Knows Best” when there are so many troubling things behind the funny facade? At first glance, “Chrisley” is sort of a humorous show about a humorous family. Todd Chrisley — described by his own son-in-law as “flamboyant” and by his children as far worse — is a father from hell. Convinced that his teenagers are always on the verge of having sex, his style of discipline is something akin to that of a prison warden. All while spoiling them rotten in a 30,000... Can you love USA’s outrageous “Chrisley Knows Best” when there are so many troubling things behind the funny facade? At first glance, “Chrisley” is sort of a humorous show about a humorous family. Todd Chrisley — described by his own son-in-law as “flamboyant” and by his children as far worse — is a father from hell. Convinced that his teenagers are always on the verge of having sex, his style of discipline is something akin to that of a prison warden. All while spoiling them rotten in a 30,000... 58530148@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 09:06:06 MDT ‘Fury’ blasts ‘Gone Girl’ from top of box office http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58538276-223/million-international-owned-box.html.csp Los Angeles • The bloody World War II drama “Fury” blew past “Gone Girl” at theaters this weekend. “Gone Girl” was tops at the box office for two weeks before Brad Pitt and his rag-tag group of tank mates in “Fury” blasted the film to second place. Sony’s “Fury” captured $23.5 million in ticket sales during its opening weekend, according to studio estimates Sunday. Fox’s “Gone Girl” followed with $17.8 million. The week’s top two films are R-rated adult dramas, followed by two PG family films. “... Los Angeles • The bloody World War II drama “Fury” blew past “Gone Girl” at theaters this weekend. “Gone Girl” was tops at the box office for two weeks before Brad Pitt and his rag-tag group of tank mates in “Fury” blasted the film to second place. Sony’s “Fury” captured $23.5 million in ticket sales during its opening weekend, according to studio estimates Sunday. Fox’s “Gone Girl” followed with $17.8 million. The week’s top two films are R-rated adult dramas, followed by two PG family films. “... 58538276@www.sltrib.com Mon, 20 Oct 2014 09:06:06 MDT